Etiquette Question for Same-Sex Weddings

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Question

My partner and I are engaged! How do we decide on the wording for our invitations? 

Answer

We think you need to write what you feel fits you and your partner best. Here are some options: 

1. Traditional.  

Mr. and Mrs. ___________ (bride's parents) request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their daughter ___________ (name) to ______________ (fiancee).

*Traditionally, the bride's parents were listed here implying that they were paying for the wedding. If you'd like to follow tradition, you can write the names of the parents who are giving the wedding. If both sets of parents are giving the wedding, you can list them alphabetically. Then just fill in the appropriate names in the spaces provided.

2. Contemporary.

___________ (partner's name) and _____________ (partner's name) request the pleasure of your company as they unite in marriage.... 

*This format is a little more modern, and let's guests know right off the bat who is getting married to whom. Simple and sweet. 

Once you figure out which format to use, don't forget the most important information: the date, the time and the location!! Oh, and the RSVP date! Happy planning!